What Not To Say To In A Relationship!
1.) “You are acting like your father.”
If you had the pleasure to meet your boyfriend’s parents and have observedtheir own quaky characteristics, I suggest you keep them to yourself. Men get very defensive when their mother is talked poorly about and angry when compared to their dad’s negative attributes (like his temper of bullheadedness). Avoid anything that has to do with family, it is a sensitive area that should not be used as word-amo!
Words that you would use to describe a new born baby or puppy should never be used when giving your man a compliment. Total turnoff.
If your man has a shit job than he probably knows that too. You don’t need to remind him how crappy his 9 to 5 is, let him figure that part out on his own.
Avoid calling your boyfriend out on what he ordered to eat while out in public. Let the guy enjoy devouring his his meal in a guilt-free environment. The best way to encourage your man to eat healthier is to introduce him to other options (that actually taste good) and not sound like you are judging him.
Some dudes just don’t know how to put together an outfit. If you want to guide him into “the best dressed” department than do it in a skillful and graceful matter. Have him try on clothes that show off his bod and that fit him in all the right places. Let him see the difference in wearing tailored shirts and well cut suits. If he likes what he sees in the mirror than he’ll trust you to help him in future shopping trips.
Slow your roll, sista! Wanting children is one thing but dreaming about being the next Octomom is another. Keep your baby count on simmer until you both get to that stage in your relationship.
Never refer to your boyfriend’s penis as little. Ever.
The Other Hubby